This year I'm participating in a bi-weekly challenge with a bunch of other bloggers of all kinds. The 2014 Blogger Challenge is organized by Gaby at Another Girly Blog; twice a month we all write posts based on a prompt she chooses. It should be exciting to see what topics she comes up with and how everyone responds to them! If you want to follow along, you can like the Facebook page or use the Twitter hashtag #2014BloggerChallenge!
The first topic for the challenge is "New Years Inspiration--share a quote or a picture that inspires you and you think will inspire others in the New Year." I didn't much like this prompt at first because I'm not big on "inspirational" stuff; I usually just find it to be cheesy and kind of empty. So I thought about my own personal challenges and what advice I'd found most useful.
What I came up with may not sound too inspirational at first:
"Don't make it perfect; just get it done."This advice was originally given to me by a linguistics PhD in the context of academic work, but it really applies to all areas of my life. I'm a huge perfectionist, to the point where large tasks give me enormous amounts of anxiety because I'm so afraid of embarrassing myself if I don't get everything exactly right. While perfectionism can be an asset in that I pay really close attention to detail, it has often slowed me down, stressed me out and caused me to pull a LOT of all-nighters.
The importance of not striving for perfection hit me a few months ago, when I was working on a polish for ALIQUID Lacquer. My husband came in, watched for a little while, and asked, "But how do you know when a polish is perfect?" I told him as long as I was happy with the result, I wasn't worried about it being "perfect". After all, perfection isn't really possible, is it?
So for 2014 I'm going to focus on just getting things done, no matter whether other people can find flaws in what I do. This really applies to all areas of my life--work, blogging, nail art, the nail polish business. I'll try to remember that my own self-worth doesn't rely on the work I produce, but how I feel about myself as a human being. I hope other perfectionists out there will try along with me!
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And now, here's your reward for making it through my ramblings...Marbles for Polish is celebrating 500 Facebook likes, and she's teamed up with several indie polish makers and bloggers for a huge "New Year, New Goodies" giveaway! I'm giving away a bottle of ALIQUID Lacquer Quiet Night In and a vanilla-scented lip balm. Visit the giveaway page at Marbles for Polish for a full list of prizes. You can enter the giveaway right here; you just have to be over 18 and a resident of the US or Canada. Good luck!
That's a tough balance, one should always strive to do their best, but that doesn't mean perfect. Doing your best vs "just getting it done", can be a tough call because you need to be satisfied with "just getting it done", if it's not your best. Best of luck. I can't polish my own nails, I do enjoy having them done; but have horrible nails in that they won't grow. Happy New Years
ReplyDeleteI'm excited to be starting a new year in a new place and creating a new life for myself!
ReplyDeleteExcited to see what nail polish makers are going to come up with next! Happy New Year and good luck everyone!
ReplyDeleteDefinitely a great motto! I'm the same way with nail polish.. If I try to "perfect" it then it'll just be a bloody mess everywhere else besides my hands, haha :) Looking forward to reading more from you and I look forward to more of your #2014BloggerChallenge posts. :)
ReplyDeleteI'm excited to improve myself and have a better year.
ReplyDeleteI'm excited to finally get the things done that I put off doing last year! LOL! I made a promise to myself to become more focused, dedicated and organized this year and on. =)
ReplyDeleteFocusing on just getting things done is definitely something I need to work on. I learned that I am a perfectionist, which drives my procrastination, not a good mix. It makes the real world difficult to navigate.
ReplyDeleteI'm most excited that, after 5 years, I'm finally going to graduate from college.
I haven't given a thought to the new year yet, have been so focused on a work project that a customer finally got around to pushing forward right before Christmas, and I've just had tunnel vision about getting that done and taking some time off.
ReplyDeleteAbout your "doesn't have to be perfect just get it done" thing, I had a similar quote I recall from a college professor: "Close is good enough." It's not true 100% of the time, but more often than not, it is. I have to say it to myself sometimes when I get so hung up on the details that I have trouble getting started. It doesn't always work (that and sometimes the result of procrastination seems pretty good). But it is certainly worth keeping in mind. :)
Happy new year!!!
Getting married this summer!
ReplyDeleteI'm excited about the possibility of starting my career!
ReplyDeleteSuper excited for the new year! Can't wait for more polishes from you :D
ReplyDeleteI'm excited about seeing my family more.
ReplyDeleteI am excited about the possibility of becoming pregnant!
ReplyDeleteTo find myself again.
ReplyDeleteTo maybe finally getting rid of a bacterial infection I've had for awhile and feeling healthy again! :)
ReplyDeleteI am excited about my husbands new job that starts next month that takes him from working evenings (2p - 11p) to working days (8a - 5p)!
ReplyDeleteIncreased earning potential and returning to school to get my R.N. :)
ReplyDeleteExcited to be getting things in order to move to Washington! Fresh start!
ReplyDeleteI am excited to see what new nail trends emerge this year!
ReplyDeleteVacationing and relaxing in the summer
ReplyDeleteThank you for the giveaway!! My New Years goal is to be a little more organized!
ReplyDeleteI'm looking forward to losing 40lbs, getting my eating/exercising routine back on track, and I'm most excited about starting a family this year!! :)
ReplyDeletegetting my life back and getting healthy!!
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